Bottom-up therapy for highly sensitive and neurodivergent folks in Washington State
Whether you feel everything too much or believe you don’t feel much at all, the result is the same:
Overthinking
Self-criticism
A ‘never enough’ mentality
Shapeshifting to avoid disappointing others.
Meanwhile, the effort of trying to get it all “right” leaves you resentful and exhausted—until you either shut down or go scorched earth.
Then comes the shame spiral: depleted, disconnected, and never satisfied with yourself or your relationships.
The Real Block
You’ve tried reframing thoughts, breathing exercises, and gaining insight into the past.
But knowing what should help isn’t the same as being able to feel or act differently.
The mismatch between what sounds true and what feels true (for you) is often a sign that old experiences are still running the show.
Times you felt rejected, shamed, or not good enough, can get stuck in your nervous system.
Even when you understand them logically, your body and emotions keep reacting as if they’re happening now.
When those old patterns loosen their grip, things start to shift in very real ways.
A memory that left you feeling too much or not enough no longer stings.
The white-hot flush in your chest that once felt unbearable finally settles.
“Fundamentally flawed” softens into a sense of worth and adequacy.
When rejection or criticism looms, you recover instead of spiraling.
You feel freer to show up authentically—without hiding, pleasing, or proving.
Your relationships feel steadier because you no longer abandon yourself to avoid conflict or disapproval.
A Different
Way Forward
Your patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere. They were built by experience and reinforced over time.
Together, we work at the level where those patterns actually live—
In your nervous system,
Your emotional memory, and
The protective parts of you that learned to survive before you had better options.
Once the old hurts are neutralized, everything else starts to move:
Your clarity
Your boundaries,
Your self-trust,
Your capacity to stay grounded when it counts.
Growth isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about removing what’s in the way.
The tools you already know start to become usable in real life.
Change stops feeling like force and starts feeling possible.
If that’s the shift you’re seeking, you’re welcome to start with a Connection Call
